My Relationship Rules

My relationship rules 1. Just because you like someone doesn't always mean they will like you in return 2. What you see isn't always what you get 3. The law of "give and It shall be given to you" doesn't always apply 4. Good or bad sex is just a thing of the mind 5. Absence most times doesn't make the heart grow fonder 6. Bad things sometimes happen to good people 7. The patient dog might just die of hunger 8. Change is the only constant thing in life 9. Relationship is not a business venture 10. Not everyone is cut out for marriage 11. You don't have to like football just because your bf loves football. 12. The only time your bf would stay & watch Desperate Housewives with you, is when he's wooing you. 13. Being pregnant for your bf don't mean your married to him automatically. 14. Don't compromise ab initio what you wouldn't continue in the relationship. 15. Look into the mirror, that's the only person your happiness depends on. 16. When you love, do so with your heart and head. 17. Ladies, not every man understands your 'hard to get' game. You just might lose a good guy. 18. Ladies, its a cold world, most guys wants just your body, NOT ALL GUYS. Differentiate. 19. Guys, some ladies love for different reasons, NOT JUST YOUR MONEY. Be witty. 20. Be truthful and diplomatic always. 21. In our modern world, FWB is prominent. Define your relationship & don't assume a title for it. 22. Ladies, change your tactics. Not all men think with their 'little heads'. 23. The stomach isn't always the way to a man's heart. Kindness, care & sometimes intelligence does the trick. 24. Guys, why keep a lady when you know you ain't gonna man her eventually. 25. A sensible guy knows the woman's worth & if she's right for him ab initio and vice versa. 26. You color block with skinny jeans like a little kid, yet you expect to attract a boss lady. 27. Flashing your tittties can attract some guys. But, I'm not sure how long it'd keep one. If the sex goes sour, well, we know the rest. 28. Avoid the love-triangle. It brings hurt more often than not. Hard as it seems, let go.

10 Characteristics­ Which You Show To Your Wife

Imam Ahmed ibn Hanbal’s (Founder of the Hanbali School of Islamic jurisprudence, may Allah have mercy on him) advice to his son on his wedding day: “Dear son, you will not attain good fortune in your home except by 10 characteristics­ which you show to your wife, so remember them and be enthusiastic in acting upon them. As for the first two; Women like attention and they like to be told clearly that they are loved. So don’t be stingy in expressing your love for your wife. If you become limited in expressing your love, you will create a barrier of harshness between you and her, and there will be a decrease in affection. 3. Ladies hate a strict, overcautious man, yet they seek to use the soft vulnerable one. So use each quality appropriately. This will be more appealing for love and it will bring you peace of mind. 4. Ladies like from their husbands what their husbands like from them, i.e. kind words, good looks, clean clothes and a pleasant odour. Therefore, always remain in that state. 5. Indeed, the house is under the sovereignty of the woman. While she remains therein, she feels that she is sitting upon her throne, and that she is the chief of the house. Stay clear of destroying this kingdom of hers and do not ever attempt to dethrone her, otherwise you will be trying to snatch her sovereignty. A king gets most angry at he who tries to strip him of his authority, even if he portrays to show something else. 6. A woman wants to love her husband, but at the same time she does not want to lose her family. So do not put yourself and her family in the same scale, because then her choice will be down to either you or her family. And even if she does choose you over her family, she will remain in anxiety, which will then turn into hatred towards you in your daily life. 7. Surely woman has been created from a curved rib, and this is the secret of her beauty, and the secret of the attraction towards her. And this is no defect in her, because ‘the eyebrows look beautiful due to them being curved’. So if she errs, do not rebuke her in a manner in which there is no gentleness, attempting to straighten her; otherwise you will simply break her and her breaking, is her divorce. At the same time do not let her off upon that mistake, otherwise her crookedness will increase and she will become arrogant with her ego. Thereafter, she will never soften for you and she won’t listen to you, so stay in between the two. 8. It is in the women’s nature to be ungrateful towards their husbands and to deny favours. If you were to be nice to her for her whole life but you grieved her once, she will say, “I have never seen any good from you”. So don’t let this attitude of her make you dislike her or to run away from her. If you dislike this feature of hers, you will be pleased with some other good habits within her, so create a balance. 9. Surely there are times when a woman goes through some conditions of bodily weakness and fatigue of the mind. Such that Allah has relieved her of some of her compulsory worships during that period; Allah has totally pardoned her from praying, and has postponed the days of fasting for her within this break to a later date until she regains her health and becomes normal in her temperament once more. Thus, during these days, treat her in a godly manner. Just as Allah has relieved her of the duties, you should also lessen your demands and instructions from her during those days. 10. Last but not least, know that a woman is like a captive with you. Therefore, have mercy upon her.”